Cynthia Nixon (Hollywood Skank)

"For me, it is a choice.  I understand that for many people it's not, but for me it's a choice, and you don't get to define my gayness for me...I've been straight and I've been gay, and gay is better...I say it doesn't matter if we flew here or we swam here.  It matters that we are here and we are one group and let us stop trying to make a litmus test for who is considered gay and who is not."

- At various times she's been into guys and gals (and who knows what else), and has a naturally conceived child with a man.

So, the 'born this way' crowd is pissed at this Try-Sexual (she'll try anything), because they don't like her claim to be able to flip in and out of homo/heterosexuality...Personally, I have no problem with her claim, nor with the 'born this ways'.

I'm sure there is a percentage of the population which is born gay (probably around 5%).  I'm also sure there's a percentage of the population which chooses to be gay (probably higher than the 5% of true gays) because it's the 'in thing' to be gay (or Bi or Try), or because of bad hetero experiences...Especially now that much of the stigma of being gay has gone away.

As for Nixon, maybe she was 'born to be Try-Sexual'...And it'll be interesting to see what she tries next.